Me: I'll be short and straight forward with you...why we never actually met up is simple, it was not meant to happen, so it didn't happen. You are free to assume whatever works best for you, what works for me is leaving all that behind and not to invest any time in conversations that won't go anywhere.
In regards to you losing a friendship, all I can say is, you can't lose something you never had. We had a relationship at some point but once it ended, it ended, no ties or strings of any type have remained after that. We did tried to meet a few times, but let's be honest the sole purpose was sex but even that wasn't a strong enough reason to bring us together, so in realtiy we can't even say we were "f**k buddies."
Last, why we haven't spoken since that day, plain and simple, we are not part of each other's lives, we can't be part of each other's lives, we should have at least learned that from the relationship we once shared.
So...that is it, that is all the answers you will get from me in regards to the past and to us. I'm sorry for not sugar coating it, but I rather use the sugar for something else.
Scott: I am not so interested in the gap of information surrounding that day, but why we never actually met up. I might assume your phone was hyjacked and this was just a prank by some teenager. I was really hoping to see you that day as we cancelled on eachother now and again. Most of the cancellations I will admit were mine.
However, I am just wanting to understand why we didn't meet up, and why it seemed like to me the biggest loss of friendship ever. I went to great lengths that day to make sure I had the right place including on-star assistance.
Why haven't we spoken since that day?
Me: I understand your need to know "what really went down that day" and I'm willing to talk about it but before I do so why don't you help me understand
1- Why the sudden need to understand what went down that day.
2- The difference that knowing what went down will make
3- Is that really all you know about what happened that day? If that is the case then again what difference will it make to know the facts that fill your gap of understanding? What you are telling me that you know is not what you should know, because if it is, all you do know and remember then I won't be filling in no gap, I would be telling you the whole story and that I won't do.
My apologies if you think I'm being rude but the least you could have done to make it look like filling the gap of understanding matters to you, was to provide me with the right facts that would make me go...ok, he remembers, instead of, when did Ken come in the picture?
All that said, I reaffirm you that I am not angry with you, I don't have a problem telling you what went down, but I see no benefit of doing so, for either one of us, It happened a year ago no why bring it to the present? Let's just leave it in the past, my present is too beautifull, bright and happy that I won't let events from the past take over.
Scott: From what I know about the situation; I was trying to meeting you at was it kens house where I thought you were staying? You were never there that day, neither was ken. I guess you may have thought I was trying to hook up with ken, but I was just trying to see you. That's basically what I know about what happend. Maybe I had the wrong house, I had never been there before either.
You're still very important to me, and I have this giant gap of understanding what really went down that day about a year ago.
I work nights so sorry for a slow reply.
Me: Hey there Scott...how have you been? Thank you for the email, to be perfectly clear I am not angry with you, perhaps I was at one point but can't recall when. So that said I'm open to talk about this past situation...what would you like to discuss?
Scott: Hey this is scott. I know you are angry with me, but can we talk about this past situation?
