The Ex's Manners

So, I received a text message this A.M. from a not so friendly ex-bf...saying "I don't care if you are sober or if you are drunk. Erase my number from your memory and from your phone and don't ever text me again you fucking loser" In normal circumstances, I would take this personal and dwell on it, but thanks to the magic of therapy, I can look beyond the rudeness and see clearly that Mr. Strong is not as strong as he pretends to be, so basically uses getto language to seem more thuggish and intimidate the opponent, in this case, me! I find it rather pathetic that for someone who swears and claims have moved on, he constantly has this hostile attitude. It has been a month and slowly I am no longer caring about him, how do I know that? well, if he was to walk in front of me or call me or show up at my door, I would not get angry or happy or sad, I would simply ignore him, his presence has no effect on me anymore. But if I was still trying to get over him, the thought of him around me would simply make me angry, nervous, stupid and rude...why? caused when the other person is around, it reminds you of what you are denying and that's how I can tell, he is not over me...so who is the loser? Excuse me...Fucking Loser! (Gotta speak his language) loser

a person who has failed at a particular activity: a loser at marriage.

Slang. a misfit, esp. someone who has never or seldom been successful at a job, personal relationship, etc.

So...if the relationship did not between him and me, then why am I the only loser? He failed at it as much as I did...hmmm! So in conclusion, if I am a loser, so is he and if I am a Fucking Loser, does that make him the loser getting fucked?